Why not judge others? This is a fair question given the fact that there is actually so much wrong in our world and so much that is wrong in individual lives.
The simple answer is that Jesus explicitly tells his followers not to, as I was reminded of in my reading this morning from Matthew 7:1-5. But the simple answer is incomplete, and like my four year old, I want to ask "Why? Why is it wrong?" I've never been one to do something without understanding why. So as I pondered the passage this morning it seems that two answers emerge in response to my question "Why?"
The first is that the process of judging another brings judgment upon oneself (verse 2). That is, we will be judged when we condemn someone else, and this isn't something I really want to experience (see also Romans 2:1-3, written to those who felt they could judge others).
But the second answer to the "Why?" question is the one that really captured my attention: When I condemn another person my ability to help them is diminished (verses 3-5). Looking at these verses, it seems that Jesus is saying that the process of judging another clouds my vision, putting the proverbial log in my eye, so that I am of no good use to my fellow human being in need. I have specks in my eye to begin with simply because I am a finite, fallen human being; my vision isn't clear to begin with. Why cloud it even more by judging another, which places not another speck in my eye but a log, making me completely unable to accurately see their need?
If I truly want to be of help to my fellow human being, I've got to resist the temptation to condemn them. When I grow the point in my soul when I can do this (when I can see the struggle and even darkness in other's life and not condemn but rather love), that is when the log is removed from my eye and I can apply the truth I see, together with the love, grace and hope of Christ, as medicine for the soul of my fellow human being.
Not judging isn't just a rule, it's a tool for me to be part of the healing God wants to bring into another's life. And what's more, it helps me begin to see as Christ saw, not a people to be condemned, but a world to healed.
Lord, help me to speak the truth in love, not in condemnation springing from a judgmental heart. Help me to love as you love because I see as you see.